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If They Wanted To, They Would? Why This Viral Phrase Isn’t Always the Closure You Think It Is
By Heather Smith- Psychotherapist, Marbella Spain It begins in a quiet moment. You’re alone, phone in hand, scrolling through messages that never came. You replay the warmth of a conversation that felt like it meant something. The connection was real…or so you thought. And now, there’s silence. In that void, a familiar phrase arrives. From a friend. From a meme. From the depths of your own weary self-protection: “If they wanted to, they would.” It’s become a cultural mantra,
Nov 247 min read


CBT for Anxiety and Depression: A Comprehensive Guide
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a widely recognized supportive approach for individuals navigating the challenges of anxiety and depression. Its methodology centers on the intricate connections between thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, providing practical strategies to foster well-being and enhance emotional regulation. This guide offers a deep dive into the principles of CBT, its core techniques, and its role within the broader landscape of mental health support. It
Nov 1211 min read


What It’s Like to Heal with Heather: Understanding Humanistic Therapy
Clients and peers often ask me, “What’s therapy like with you? What kind of techniques do you use? Which psychologists or psychotherapists have influenced your style?” The truth is, my approach can’t be captured by a single technique or label. I consider myself a humanistic therapist, and while that might sound like a textbook term, what it really means is simple: I believe you already hold the potential to heal, and my job is to help you reconnect with it. Let me explain wha
Oct 204 min read


Understanding Anticipatory Grief: When Loss Comes Before It Happens
Many of us know what grief feels like when someone we love is gone, the silence, the absence, the ache that fills the room. But what...
Sep 234 min read


Anxiety Symptoms in Adolescence: Understanding and Managing Them
Anxiety symptoms in adolescence are increasingly common and can significantly impact a teenager's daily life. Understanding these...
Aug 2912 min read


Signs Your Body is Releasing Trauma: Key Indicators for Healing
Trauma affects both the mind and body , often leading to physical and emotional signs. Understanding these signs is essential for...
Jul 309 min read
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